! --Stepper direction

Interesting, there was a discussion on the wiring of Z Axis stepper motors in series and parallel here:

If you read through what I wrote there, you’ll see that wiring the Z Axis steppers in series might be the right thing to do in this case.

The second thing I’d recommend (maybe do this first) is put some light machine oil on your lead screws and see if that makes things quieter.